Partial Sums and What 'The Sum' Even Means
You cannot literally add infinitely many numbers one at a time. Instead, you watch the sequence of partial sums S₁, S₂, S₃, ... where each Sₙ is the total of the first n terms. If those running totals home in on a single fixed number as n grows, that number is defined to be the sum of the infinite series.
Why it works
Think of the series 4 + 2 + 1 + 0.5 + 0.25 + .... The partial sums go 4, 6, 7, 7.5, 7.75, 7.875, ... creeping toward 8 but never overshooting. The gap to 8 keeps halving, so it shrinks past any tiny amount you name. 'The sum is 8' is shorthand for 'the partial sums get and stay as close to 8 as you like.'