What makes a sequence arithmetic
A sequence is just an ordered list of numbers called terms, written t₁, t₂, t₃, and so on. A sequence is arithmetic when the difference between every pair of consecutive terms is the same constant, called the common difference d. You find d by subtracting any term from the one right after it: d = tₙ - tₙ₋₁. The difference can be positive (increasing), negative (decreasing), or zero (constant).
Why it works
The word 'common' means shared by all the gaps. If even one gap is different, the list is not arithmetic. This is exactly the test you run: walk down the list, subtract each term from the next, and check that you always land on the same number. That constancy is the entire personality of the sequence.